Values of the energy-dependent cross sections for momentum transfer, annihilation and rotational excitation and deexcitation for positrons in N2, H2 and D2 are chosen so that, when used in a simple slowing-down calculation, the forms of recently measured lifetime spectra are best reproduced. The success of this procedure suggests that, for essentially the whole time taken for thermalisation in these gases, the positrons undergo collisions involving only rotational excitation or momentum transfer. A reliable estimation of the cross sections for these two processes for collisions of positrons with energies below 0.5 eV with homonuclear diatomic molecules should follow from the application of fuller theoretical analysis of a wider range of experimental data.